Happy Independence Day

I would like to wish you all a happy Independence Day. Let us remember this day for what it really is, the celebration of independence from British rule. By all means please have fun, parties and fireworks. Just spare a moment to remember what we are partying about and remind our kids too.

It it a bittersweet time for me because as an American I celebrate this date for my country and thank the many men who put their lives on the line to achieve this. It is also the day my beloved dog Laddie died after 11 years of devotion. I remember the sound of fireworks outside as Laddie started to act strange and then died in my arms from what seemed like a heart attack.

I call today Independence Day because I feel it has a dual meaning. Allergies to my dog had been getting worse yet I could not even bear the thought of parting with him. So I used technology to attempt to keep the allergies at bay. Air purifiers, allergen neutralizing sprays, dust mite covers, central vacuum and no carpets were amongst the techniques I used and for the most part it worked. However, it was getting worse and being a long haired breed (Sheltie) that shed as well as hated water and baths, it was an uphill battle. It is my belief Laddie wanted to give me independence.

I believe that the experience has helped me learn how to help others cope. I did find that there were ways to handle the allergies to my dog.

Today -two years later I can tolerate dogs, (cats and other pets) for short periods, but if I am not careful and they lick my hands then I touch my face I invariably start to swell up or itch. Breathing is also difficult if there isn't enough ventilation or air purification.

I am researching less allergenic dog breeds. Just like grass, pollen etc. which people vary in sensitivity to depending on the species, there are some dog breeds that potentially I may be able to tolerate.

So have a Independence Day and believe if there is a will there is a way!